This is a photo of Rayena and her toddler son catching a nap before she has to go to work. She works as a trauma nurse, and is most of the time exhausted and under stress according to her husband Bobby who posted the letter. The family lives in Gardendale, Alabama.
His letter stated that he appreciates the effort she puts in every day to be capable of helping people at work regardless of the trouble they have gotten themselves into or whose fault it was. She simply helps everyone who is rushed into the hospital.
Rayena is tasked with keeping a balance between her family and work and while sometimes the balance hangs on a thread, it is still there. Her husband is proud of her and acknowledges all of her efforts to be the best mom and nurse which saves lives every day, just to wake up the next morning and do it all again.
“This is my wife taking a nap. In an hour she will wake up, put on her scrubs and get ready for work.
“The tools and items she needs to perform her job will be gathered and checked meticulously – her hair and makeup will be done quickly. She will complain that she looks awful. I will disagree, emphatically, and get her a cup of coffee.
“She will sit on the couch with her legs crossed under her and try to drink it while happily playing with the toddler that’s crawling all over her.”
“She will occasionally stare off blankly as we talk; silently steeling herself for the coming shift. She thinks I don’t notice.
“She will kiss the baby, she will kiss me and she will leave to go take care of people that are having the worst day of their entire lives. Car wrecks, gunshot wounds, explosions, burns and breaks – professionals, poor, pastors, addicts and prostitutes – mothers, fathers, sons, daughters and families – it doesn’t matter who you are or what happened to you.”
“She will take care of you.
She will come home 14 hours later and remove shoes that have walked through blood, bile, tears and fire from aching feet and leave them outside. Sometimes she will not want to talk about it. Sometimes she can’t wait to talk about it.”
“Sometimes she will laugh until she cries and sometimes she will just cry – but regardless of those sometimes she will be on time for her next shift.”
My wife is a nurse. My wife is a hero.”